Girls, guys are not very good with expressing their feelings. But that doesn't mean they dont feel . Infact,they are more emotionally stressed than girls. So, When he messes up and apologizes, accept his apology.. When you see he is holding back tears, forgive him. When he hurts you and he's there to hold you back together, let him. When it's apparent that, any pain you feel he also does feel 10 times worse. Realize that he loves you alot.